God intended sex to be this really wonderful, spiritual thing. He made it so you, like, share yourself with your partner and yes sex is wrong outside marriage, that's something I firmly believe I have the purity ring and everything. Hahah.
I don't understand why you would want to go sleeping around because God created it so you can make something amazing that's really a miracle and the way he just created people to work together in harmony is pretty mind blowing. And I personally think it's really disgusting with female condoms and all the crap females have to do. Like you have to take the pill or the ring, or the patch and you have to change things once a month and it's gross to even think about or is that just me~
So if you simple follow what God wants you to do then you don't have to worry about all that. I mean of course you're going to be tempted to have sex because Satan and everything you just have to overcome that. Then you don't have to worry about becoming pregnant and "ruining your life" or getting a STD. Because when you have sex it is with someone you care about and someone you're spending the rest of your life with. It should be a mutual decision and you're all "Hey, we're going to have sex right now because we want a child." Then you don't have to worry about preventing something happening to you.
I don't understand when you'd want to sleep around and someone's like "Oh haha lol forgot to tell you I have herpes lol sorry about that sex we just had". When you wait for the right person and get married and you're ready to spend your life together when you get pregnant it's not a mistake because you want it to happen and you're sharing yourself with your partner because you love them and you want to. Also then you don't have to, errr you /shouldn't/ have to worry about getting a disease because you're both faithful to each other and it takes the pressure off? I don't know.
So I don't understand the huge thing about sex with teens and stuff. Because I mean, I personally haven't felt the urge and the pressure to have sex yet in my life but I'm pretty sure it'll happen sometime.
I don't know. I guess all this sounded much better in my head. Too awkward to read? I understand, way awkward to write down.
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I think it was really brave of you to discuss such a personal subject in such a public manner. It's also really admirable that you have such strong principals, especially at a young age. I also have chosen not to have sex until I get married, but for personal rather than religious reasons. I completely agree that casual sex is meaningless and will often lead to disease and unwanted pregnancies. That said, I don't think it's realistic that everyone in the world will ever agree on this issue. People are going to have sex, and not everyone is going to wait until marriage. For this reason, I think it's very important for people to be informed about and use protection. This will prevent unwanted pregnancies, which will prevent future abortions as well. Abstinence is a great way to prevent diseases, but it's not the only option. Every person is different, and sex is a very personal thing. If they feel ready to have sex, there is no reason they should get a disease when there are so many options for them to prevent just that. In addition, once a woman is married, she should not be forced to have children. I personally do not wish to have children, and I am very thankful that I live an era where that will not be forced upon me because I have options. Some individuals, such as myself, want to spend their life pursuing their passions and furthering their careers while doting on their sixteen pet cats. Some individuals chose to devote their lives entirely to their family. There is absolutely nothing wrong with either, I just think having children isn't right for everyone and a women should not have it forced upon them. Many women in the fifties felt empty, trapped, depressed, and hopeless because they were forced to be housewives when they wished to do so much more with their lives. Anyway, I just want to reiterate how much respect I have for you for posting this, and I apologize for rambling on as I've done. lessthanthreee<3
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